Are your people ever interested in what you want to say or do? The problem isn’t really between you or your men because men are attracted to certain types of women who have bright traits like life and spontaneity. No one likes an annoying person who talks about unnecessary things or something relevant. Women, men like it when you can have meaningful conversations and sometimes let go of your tight personality. Although some men like it when women take responsibility and are stable. So, some kind of men and women do not lose interest here.