Love capsule: Ours is a loveless marriage, but it’s good!

I have always been a high-spirited girl. My freedom, my independence and the ability to make decisions by myself has always been a major priority in my life. And so, over time, the people around me have taken place accordingly; My parents never forced their hard decisions or ways on me and I am totally grateful for that. I was worried about whether my husband would tolerate my freedom. And in search of a perfect husband who will accept me as I am, I meet Abinash.

Abinash cut on top of the rest. She is very calm, cool and flexible. When we met, he told me clearly that he wanted me to live on my own terms. I had no expectations of him and that is what drew me to him. I didn’t need anyone to impose their marital expectations on me, I needed someone who could let me go wild and free.

The only thing that confuses me sometimes is that we don’t love each other at all when we are in a seemingly happy marriage. We never developed a romantic feeling between us, but when we were together we felt very comfortable, safe and secure. Abinash made me feel like I had no boundaries to obey and it soothed my adventurous spirit. It’s almost like we’re best friends who have married each other.

For me, love is not important. The companionship is. I don’t have to spend my life with someone I love. I just need someone who can understand me and satisfy my hunger. And because of this, everything he dreamed of becoming my life partner quickly became.

The only thing that is clear about Abinash is how his family doesn’t know that we are not romantically involved with each other. And so, she plans the party for each milestone that we pass together and she declares our love to the world by sharing beautiful social media posts. He wants the world to know that we love each other and are very happy together. And then, we laugh at the catchy captions he puts together. He has planned a wonderful holiday for both of us. Last year, we had such a great time together in Miami and he even surprised me with a scuba diving treat! You will be surprised to know that when we travel together, we rarely spend time with each other. She was busy with her choices, I was doing my own thing.

Abinash also has no problem with me flirting with other people. She is great with it and even encourages me to mix with other people. All he wants is for me to be very careful so that our close friends and family do not know what is happening. So, if he does everything right with me as I wish, I have no reason to question his actions and some of me think it is perfectly legitimate for him not to want our family involved. We are not just some traditional couple, we are different and not everyone will understand us.

As long as we are happy, that is important!

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